Enhancing Relationship: 2
Saturday, September 30, 2006
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NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a
successful
marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for
her
shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that
because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better
husband than you."
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are
afraid of
losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look
around
to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war.
We
should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the
other
four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will be more discreet about our mistakes too.
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a
successful
marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for
her
shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that
because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better
husband than you."
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are
afraid of
losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look
around
to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war.
We
should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the
other
four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will be more discreet about our mistakes too.
posted by Mohksin Rashid @
8:05 am
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