Enhancing Relationship: 4
Monday, October 02, 2006
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NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or
demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer
all
and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually,
this
is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning
that
"It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's
character."
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the
spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our
expectations..
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or
demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer
all
and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually,
this
is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning
that
"It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's
character."
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the
spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our
expectations..
posted by Mohksin Rashid @
8:00 pm
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